"I'm addicted to cash" -Lady Donli. Credit: Pinterest. Welcome back to the dom! If you're new here, feel free to buy a bottle of champagne and send me the invoice. No, I will not pay for it, but humor me anyway. How are you doing? Really, I want to know. Leave a comment and let me know how you are. Until then, I hope you have been well. I cannot stop apologizing for leaving you high and dry and I'll try to do better, but you know these things take time. So, please forgive me. Today's blog post interests me a lot. I know I say this all the time, but walk with me. Remember that time I wrote about money? A lot of you reached out to tell me about your experiences, and I promised myself I'll keep updating you as often as I can. Well, it's time. So here goes, speaking of money again. In Lady Donli's hit song, Cash, she expresses her immense love for money in a way that lets you understand how her relationship with it is, even if you have never encou
Your benevolent Chief in all her glory. 📸: @hafsi_hafeedoh on IG. "Choose yourself, twice". This journey to self discovery is a tough one. In life, people speak of how to treat others, how to be a kind person to them but rarely ever remind you to extend the same grace to yourself. For example, look at me. I recently evaluated and realized that how a lot of people treated me was only an extension of how I treated myself. I almost never cut myself any slack, at the slightest mistake I'm quick to call myself names, never extending any iota of grace as I would to any other person. This behavior is toxic, and coming to terms with it was hard. I found out that I disrespected myself in many ways. From watering down my skills and achievements just to make others comfortable, To calling myself names, To blaming myself for little mistakes and even situations I had no control over. By doing these things I indirectly sent signals to people that it is okay to water down my abil