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"When it comes to Money I dey concentrate"

- Burna boy (Yè).


The whole idea of money is weird.  I know all there is to know about how it works and all of the "lessons" attached but I still don't get it. I don’t understand how something so valuable can be contained in the most inconsequential form and not lose its value. It doesn't even need a physical currency anymore and it is the singular most important thing in the world. Money doesn't make sense to me but I love it anyway.

The fact that I woke up one day in this world (Nobody asked for my permission by the way) and I'm supposed to do whatever to make this money just to get by and live a soft life until the day I drop dead? This is the concept I don't agree to but today is not the day for arguing economical constructs. 

Now, the major issue I have with money is how we address it. Nobody ever tells you what you need to know about money, at least, not the important things.

For something so vital and powerful, we rarely ever hear the truth about money. People often speak of how money is the root of evil and how the love of money will ruin you but almost never answer the real questions about money. 

 Like why do I actually need money? Or 

What exactly can money buy me?

Because I'm benevolent like that, I'll share the answers I found that have satisfied me about money and hopefully, they'll resonate with you.

I need money because I find it extremely hard to imagine my existence without it. Everything I love and care about is somehow linked to having a lot of money. Even the people.

The list of what money can buy me is endless but the most important thing is options. Money buys you choices. Choices may take a while to make but guess what ? Money buys you time too.  If you have a lot of money, you can afford to spend your youth exploring, chasing your passion even if it doesn't translate to income. Now that is a luxury other people cannot afford.

I detest that I didn't have so much correct information about money before now. I detest that somehow we have allowed ourselves believe that by questing for money we've lost the plot. 

I have seen people's lives change for better and worse because their money dynamic changed. Don't let anyone project their insecurities and inadequacies about money on you. Allow yourself long for something that can make your life here easier and stress-free.


Make that money legitimately and share with your Chief.


February 2021.

Music: Currently, I'm listening to Trumpet by Burna boy and Davido. (Ever since I found this song I have told everyone who cared to listen that they have a song together. Incase you didn't know, check it out. You're welcome.)

Feelings: Currently, I'm feeling very estactic because I'll be older in a few weeks. I have written a wishlist too😉. https://www.thingstogetme.com/176379acc8f3

Thoughts: Currently, I'm thinking about my friendships and how I have navigated through the many dynamics over the years.  I'm basically reflecting on how to be a better friend.

Projections: Nothing has changed here. I'm still looking forward to totally removing myself from the shackles of the Nigerian system please. 


Till next time,

Your (almost +1) Chief.





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