"This year, I'm stepping into enjoyment. The very core of my existence". -Chief.  Welcome back to the dom my people.  Let me start by apologizing for leaving you for too long, it will (not) happen again 🙂.  Today's blog post is a life update . A lot has changed since the last time I wrote to you. So, I'm basically going to fill you in.  First things first, I'm aging. Nineteen whole years around the sun and it's been one hell of a ride. I truly believe this year is the one I'll thoroughly enjoy myself. I can't wait to key into that.  Second things second, (Ha) I'm learning a lot of new things about friendship. I've had to hold back and withdraw from a couple of situations and it is by far one of the most difficult things I have had to do. However, sometimes we get so comfortable with the idea of being someone's friend that we absolutely ignore when it's not working. That is  unhealthy and extremely toxic. There's more to life ...